I'm told I do good work, but at the same time told about the flaws in my personality with a rather ... abrasive choice of words to match.  I just don't know how I'm suppose to be someone I'm not, nor do I feel that different from others.  All this does is make me hate myself a bit and leaves me wondering who said what and how they really feel.  Don't be pleasant to my face if you can't stand me.