The last day of "the holidays" and here I am up way too early again and under the thumb of demands put on my time by others.  Is there a way for me to learn how to say "no thanks" and not be the a-hole?  4 "free" days off from work between Tgiving and New Years and all friggin 4 were booked with "obligations".  I'm so over it.

Dear non-working and retired people,

Those of us that do work want to keep our days off for ourselves.

Thanks,

Me