A place to babble endlessly about the mundane ongoings of my life the center of which are... hockey, dogs, and cake.
Friday, July 31, 2026
Wednesday, July 22, 2026
It's been a pensive week. My close friend's mother passed and we attended her funeral yesterday. Much like my mother, she had her ailments but was relatively well. It wasn't 100% abrupt, but her illness was brief (a blessing).
After returning from that funeral I learned another friend's husband passed away last night. She had just retired earlier this year. They weren't old enough to be leaving one another yet.
My heart hurts for them all so much. My own birthday came and went without too much gnashing of teeth, but I would be lying if I didn't reflect and simply say momento mori.
Wednesday, July 15, 2026
Last week's swim meet updates! Avery's 100 free relay came in 6th out of 14 with 1:32.84, again no individual splits were available. Her 100 medley relay also came in 6th out of 9 with 1:51.65. She snagged 4th in the 25 fly out of 6 girls with 26.31 (the week prior was 26.74, so she bettered herself which is huge). They also had her swim 25 breast, which she wasn't thrilled about but she again took 4th out of 6 and we got a seed time for next go round of 33.57. She seemed pleased with the results and was happy to get ribbons for places she hasn't won previously.
Today is finals and our mini-season is over. They have her in one relay and swimming 25 free. With finals since they can only sign up 3 swimmers for each event she barely got edged out on seed time on butterfly.
This week we are free from another activity, which is good, I'm getting tired of running. We're back to it next week.
Other news, it looks like our two foster babies are coming back after it having been announced that the adoption was finalized - I'm bummed for them but this also complicates things here. Saying a prayer that we might have another foster step up even if just temporarily.
Tomatoes are starting to ripen and they're beautiful this year! I also have several peppers growing well out back. I've pulled onions - while they're not huge they're bigger than I've managed to harvest in the past. I also have more beans coming in. The beets are looking like my nothing-burger this year. Two of the potato pots have died off and I should check them - but I don't anticipate much there; the other couple pots are still growing strong. I also have some beautiful lettuce happening which I'm pleased with since last year I couldn't get it to start to save my life.
The CSA started up last Friday so I have kale, lettuce, beans, and cukes from them to use up. I only did a quarter basket this year, I think it was the right move. I'm bummed we didn't get scapes this year in the first week. With the kale I made a batch of tuscan chicken - yum. I never thought I'd find a way to make kale an enjoyable part of a meal, but all three of us give this dish good ratings.
Tuesday, July 07, 2026
Another one of those "everyone thinks I'm mean but I'm really soft" moments, actually, two of them.
First, it was a month on the 6th since I ordered my fridge and stove. The stove isn't here yet. I'm not in a rush, but you're holding a significant amount of money, so I'd like an idea of when it will come -- and your 4th of July sale has it $200 cheaper. Well, I reached out via the chat feature on their website and immediately got them to say they'd update the price and reinvoice. Could I have called and asked for that? I should have, but I felt awkward about it. They also initiated steps to check on status, so I wait to hear on delivery timeframe.
Second, kiddo's first communion was at the beginning of May, that's 2 months ago. I still don't have photos back. I also didn't spend time taking my own photos because we paid to get them from the professional photographer. I reached out to her at the very end of May concerned that it could have been an email that landed in spam (I ordered digital copy), which wasn't straightforward as their business phone wasn't functioning (sigh) - but I found her on FB. To my surprise she replied to me and gave me her cell number. She said she'd call when my order is completely ready. There isn't a group for the 1st communion class to reach out and say "hey, did anyone get their photos", so I'm sitting here awkward about it. I'd think at this point I am within reason to say "hey, I need these post haste" but again, I'm soft. I put something in my calendar for later this month to force me to confront if I don't hear anything by then.
Thursday, July 02, 2026
After missing the first two swim meets due to vacation, we were finally able to attend the home meet last night. Girl's relays didn't kick a lot of butt but it was obvious her times were going to improve greatly over last year. In her individual events, between last July and this event she went from 33.00s to 26.74 in her 25 butterfly and from 36.99 to 22.25 in her 25 free. This, and the ribbons that come with these times, is the encouragement she needs to keep practicing and working on her starts on the blocks and coming into the wall hard. I can't believe my kid swims butterfly and hates breaststroke.
Monday, June 29, 2026
Monday, June 15, 2026
Yesterday I marveled at how quickly news and information can travel, including somewhat niche information. Kiddo and I have greatly enjoyed music from Oliver Tree for the past few years. We'd dance waiting for the bus, we'd rewatch the videos and be goofy in the living room, he brought me joy. I was watching for tour dates and hoping he would come near so I could go -- even better if it was all ages that I could take kiddo to her first show.
Within hours of two helicopters colliding in South America resulting in his death I heard about it. Isn't that a bit crazy? At first it sounded like a joke/publicity prank. Now it just sits oddly. Music industry screwed in the past few weeks, going independent, and now suddenly gone. It's odd, it's too much of a coincidence, and it's just straight up sad. Rest in peace Oliver. Thank you for the joy.
Monday, June 08, 2026
Wednesday, June 03, 2026
Summer is official as kiddo's last day of 2nd grade was last week, and the weather has been beautiful. I've been keeping up with mowing the lawn so far. Fortunately with a bit less rain it should slow down. Less rain also made it painfully obvious that my rain barrel is definitely leaking out as it is bone dry at the moment. I'll need to figure that out as it's nice to not use the tap for many reasons.
I ended up buying tomato and pepper plants from Home Depot and Lowes when they were doing slightly reduced prices over Memorial Day. I feel like a sell out, but who knows when I'd get to one of the farms to get them purchased and I didn't want to miss out on sweet 100s. Everything went into their pots and are acclimating well.
My favorite egg's dad, the landscaper, came and refreshed my mulch and broke apart some of the plants out front. I love how sharp everything looks with fresh mulch. He also sprayed the property for ticks, which seems very necessary this year.
Now it's time to shift into getting things in order for summer activities and vacation. Both things I look forward to, but I'm still behind on. I at least got a new swim top ordered this morning, I'd hate to get too close to the date and not have everything I need.
Monday, May 11, 2026
Wednesday, May 06, 2026
We survived first communion! Now on to the summer mayhem planning. I'm lucky I didn't book flights yet for June, but I suspect the closure of Spirit means higher prices on the other airlines and we won't see drops. That said I sucked it up and booked for the first trip. My wallet hurts a bit, but there is a load off of my shoulders. To save a few I bought gift cards from Ticketsatwork, that gave me $60 off - and I am taking the 7pm back out to save another $100. In the meantime, we'll book an excursion to see the Kennedy Space Center, so that'll be fun.
Sunday, April 26, 2026
Monday, April 20, 2026
Sunday, April 12, 2026
Thursday, April 09, 2026
The plumber was right. The drips stopped by late morning. He did still come through and I got to spend some cash to get the hot water expansion tank replaced along with the seal for the valve on the hot water tank. I managed to get rid of a lot of stuff that was gathered and put out for whoever wanted it, but of course I had to deal with people saying they were coming that never showed repeatedly.
School transport has been a crap show for the past few weeks. I think we'll see some of that normalizing now that we have an official van driver (as of yesterday). Kid isn't happy because "she's mean" (translation: she doesn't want them eating in the van and told Avery to not sit by the door).
My first mow took place last weekend whilst I had taken time off for Easter, but it's ready to be mowed again -- the main drawback to spring if you ask me. I took my chances a few weeks ago and put some potatoes and onion sets into dirt - same with carrot, beet, cucumber, bean, and basil seeds. The potatoes, onions, and one pot of beans are already doing their thing well enough that I had to cover things up a few nights ago when it dropped into the 20s over night. Here we are back up to 70 today.
Work has been a bit crazy. I ended up working 20 hours when I had 16 planned out of office at the beginning of this week. Now... I sleep.
Friday, March 27, 2026
Thursday, March 26, 2026
I made a run into Johnstown for part of the day earlier this week. A legend is retiring, and I couldn't miss her gathering. Fortunately, the weather was good - but yes, there was still some snow in the parking lot. I'm getting to the age where people I've worked closely with for a very long time are retiring one after another. It give me hope for me, but it makes me might sad too.
I made sure to snag some meadows and sushi before I headed west again.
Thursday, March 19, 2026
Sunday, March 15, 2026
Tuesday, March 10, 2026
Yesterday we almost missed the bus. Those that know me well know we are 99% of the time outside for 5+ minutes before its arrival and that tracks from Kindergarten to today.
There has been new drivers come and go, but the one that had them move the time back must be coming straight from another job - which makes me wonder how tired they might be, but that's a whole other thing. Well, I guess they didn't convey this to the other driver that is supporting the route. He rolled up 10 minutes earlier than the other one has been. I opened the garage door and stepped outside to catch him while the girl put her shoes on.
I didn't realize how much that routine meant to her as she told me this disruption had her crying on the bus. The good news is the weather has been nice. We can go stand and "wait and see" this morning.
Tuesday, March 03, 2026
Tuesday, February 17, 2026
Saturday was all day in my bedroom. After tending to the animals and getting myself coffee I got moving. I've been trying to deep clean as I go and make purge decisions, so that slowed me down. I wrapped about 7 and a half hours later with a very sore back and hips. At that point I had most everything cleared to other bedrooms or the basement except the things hanging in my closet, as I needed kiddo's bed to toss them on Monday morning.
Sunday was truly a day of rest. While the flooring activity is coming to a close my efforts are far from done right now so I knew I needed to take that time. It didn't help that a sinusitis attack flared up and I didn't take the sinus calm fast enough, so now I've got a nice bronchial cough going. I also scheduled Monday off since some of our customers were out and canceled the typical Monday meetings and the girl was off of school. I used this time to put the big pieces in the living room back into position, which made a good dent clearing things out of my office. My dining room is still the staging area for the ongoing work, so I can't finalize in there just yet.
Since my room and closet were completed on Monday I hung everything back in my closet and started bringing things back in from the other rooms. My hips weren't in the mood to sit on the floor (despite the plush and inviting new carpet), so the bookshelf isn't back in order yet and the rest of the closet items aren't back in place. I did get 3 more loads of laundry done including all of my bedding including the bed topper, so I was able to put it back together in an ideal state in time for bed.
Today they return to finish - all that remains are the stairs! As they clear out I have quite the process remaining in front of me. I've decided to get rid of numerous things, but that means getting things in order to donate them for the rescue's auction room and dropping off a few more bags of old clothes.
After the upstairs is in order the basement will be calling. There is a lot that made its way there that won't be getting thrown or donated.
Also on our plate are the looming needs for different travel related items. I have a sister remarrying and I need to plan accordingly to attend. I need to get things in order for girl's first communion. I have summer cruise related travel to get pulled together. There is also a request of work travel next month that I haven't even had the mental bandwidth to process and determine if it's an option. I also gotta get my act together, gather papers, and schedule to get my taxes out of the way.
It feels like this week, when the house was the most chaotic everyone came at us with other requests. Girl has a craft she needs to get done before her first reconciliation and a poster coming home on Thursday from school as homework (I do appreciate the warning). Fortunately, my favorite egg glued the table leg last night and it is flipped back over so we have table-space to work at.
Friday, February 13, 2026
Last night I went to bed at 10:30 (and in my own bed) instead of pressing forward with the things I need to do. After a few days of killing my back and staying up way too late it was so good, my back is happier, my mind feels clearer, and I have the energy I need to get to the weekend.
Flooring update: the LVP and all trim wrapped up earlier this week. 3 out of 4 bedrooms have new carpet in them. The upstairs hall is ripped out, that should get finished today. The living room was ripped out and new pad applied yesterday. The carpet is cut and laying in place there, so I'm hoping that will be done today -- allowing me to get the downstairs back in order. At the same time, my bedroom remains, so there is moving things back to the other bedrooms and clearing my space (which is no small task) on my list for this weekend.
We still managed to make both swim practices and jiu jitsu classes this week, but the wheels are coming off a bit on other things. Fortunately, we prioritized making kiddo's valentine's box last weekend. I'm also only down about an hour and a half at work so far this week, not that I can't take some vacation - heaven knows I need to start pacing through it before June is upon us.
Tuesday, February 10, 2026
The water boil advisory was lifted yesterday morning, thank goodness. I was able to run the dishwasher last night and emptied it and manually cleaned the rest this morning to get them out of the way just in time for the dishwasher to be disconnected to get flooring under it.
Last night I also cleared all of the little things from kiddo's room, so that's where they started with carpet today -- because I didn't get the foster room completely emptied. I did that room between meetings this morning so it is next in line. The fosters are presently freaked out in my bathroom.
I'm feeling the stress of the home project, but I'm working to get through and shake it off. The downstairs is so close. Then I can put the pantry back in order, freeing up several boxes to help gather things from other upstairs rooms. I'm also identifying things to get rid of. Our favorite cat rescue works with a auction place for space that benefits them - so I know where those things will go. My sister talked me out of feeling bad about a few things that I think will head in that direction.
I'm looking forward to returning to my insanely busy schedule without the additional needs to ready spaces piled on top. The extra good news is that since I'm cleaning some things as I go the house is getting a deeper clean than it has in quite some time. I mean, who pulls out their stove and fridge on the regular? Ok ok, some of you do. Don't judge me.
Sunday, February 08, 2026
Friday, February 06, 2026
Progress continues! The dining room is done and mostly put back together. I've started setting back up in the computer room and can work there, but not as comfortably as I would like at this point. The glass mat did not arrive yesterday as FedEx indicated and now they're saying it will arrive this afternoon. This means I am not using my office chair, but instead an exercise ball so I don't damage the floor. I'd be fine if the exercise ball was a bit bigger/taller.
Yesterday I had a massage appointment and put the dog in the crate (which was in the living room given the work going on). During his time there he grabbed whatever he could reach. This included ripping part of a box that contained herbs and spices (and drooling on some of the containers - yay) and snagging the $40 silicone mat that I bought for under his crate (which was not in place underneath at that time). He ripped several chunks out of it - because of course he did. It's still mostly usable for the purpose for which it was selected (to go under the create to prevent it from sliding around on the new floor in the dining room), but I'm so not happy with him.
Last night I cleared the kitchen as it is up next. When I moved the kitchen table (admittedly I'm one person, so I can't lift the whole thing; I was walking it a bit at a time on each side by lifting and pivoting) a leg completely came off. My table top is wood but the legs are metal. As the leg came off the screws just shredded the wood where they were attached. I have it balanced back on that leg, but now I need to figure out if it can be repaired or if I am not shopping for a new dining room table. I know it's old, I know "stuff happens", but I'm so over it. I thought January was out to get me, but February is looking like she wants to be seen and heard.
Thursday, February 05, 2026
The new flooring is well underway. They started in my office with the goal to allow me to get back up and running quickly. That was 100% finished yesterday, but I didn't move my computers back in last night as I had to get the dining room completely cleared. I am very pleased with my selection thus far. I love the color, it works well with the walls and even the vent covers match nicely -- I'm still holding my breath to see it en masse around my kitchen cabinets and countertops.
I have been doing a deeper clean on things (crevices and baseboards for example) as I move things out of the rooms. The walls behind the dog crate were thoroughly scrubbed. I have also tossed a few items like the bookshelf from my office which had a might strong gangsta lean going on once the books were removed. I tossed a few things from the pantry, that felt good.
Today my glass mat is slated to arrive, so I will likely start moving back into the office tonight. Girl's swimming is canceled for this evening, so that gives me a bit more time to take care of that. It will be necessary too as I'll need the living room space to pull the couch forward making room for the kitchen table.
I'm dreading when he pulls the fridge and stove out. I can't get under/behind them to clean and I anticipate finding an extra dog/cat conglomeration made of fur from under each.
I have too much stuff, I know this. But one thing for sure, the downstairs work has me even more anxious about the upstairs work, where there are quite a few more larger pieces of furniture.
Friday, January 30, 2026
Well, I was forced to issue formal apologies to my Nest thermostat. The furnace ran all day without another issue - until it didn't. I noticed as I ate dinner it was started to get cool. Looked at the thermostat and I was at 65 (recall it should be at 68 during the day). Went back downstairs and there is the code that was absent earlier today - six short, one long... it doesn't escape me that this is the cruise ship emergency horn pattern as well.
The internet (which cannot be trusted based on some of my recent searches indicating that 2/3 of an inch is equal to 7/16, but I digress) says on my furnace this means a faulty ignition system, gas supply issues, pressure switch problems, or thermostat problems. I'm pretty sure the gas is good. The thermostat is saying it's supposed to be running. I have had issues w/ the pressure switch before.
Regardless, the HVAC folks are on their way. Wish me luck.
I thought I was going to have to call the HVAC company this morning. I drop the temp down overnight as I like it to be a bit colder to sleep. With the kiddo on remote learning all week I've taken advantage by turning off the first alarm on my phone and getting a bit more sleep - so when I wasn't woken as the temps started to climb and opened my eyes thinking "dang my hands are freezing" I was a bit confused.
Once I got a bit of morning clarity, probably inspired by getting out of bed into the cold, I looked at the temp on my alarm clock (a neat little built in feature) and saw 55. 55! My low over night is supposed to be 63, no wonder I was so friggin cold.
Came down stairs and looked at the Nest thermostat as it started running. No reason for it to not be warmer according to those settings. Checked the furnace which was firing up and not indicating any errors on the little green blinking light.
I kicked on the fireplace to help expedite the temperature change and everything was up to normal temp (68) within a couple of hours... but I have no clue why on earth it didn't warm up in here this morning.
I SWEAR the Nest just chooses to disobey... the AI is testing the waters for an uprising. To those thinking about articles you've read on the topic: no, it is no longer connected to the network, so this isn't a remote change/override.
Wednesday, January 28, 2026
Sunday, January 25, 2026
I probably won't be able to lift my arms to type tomorrow. We got the biggest show storm since I moved here today -- shocking no one as I'm pretty sure most everyone from Arkansas to New York is prb saying the same thing.
My shoveling this morning was about 5 inches. Midday was another 4. This evening was another 5-6. In advance I did buy some gas for the blower. Ever the optimist, aren't I? Needless to say it wouldn't start. Not even after my favorite egg and one of our fantastic neighbors worked at it for an hour. Regardless, my driveway (and the area around the fire hydrant in my front yard) are clear.
The temps at least came up a bit (as they do when it snows), thank goodness. School is a no for tomorrow, we'll see what Tuesday brings.
Proving once again that my neighbors are the best, a little snow party formed. The kids had a blast playing in the snow. The dads and some of the kids were sledding down the street. A fire was going in a pit on the neighbor's driveway. We got to hang out and chat for a bit. Bring your plastic cup!
Monday, January 19, 2026
Yesterday I woke up before the alarm and flipped on the TV in bed. I was half awake and half asleep when I heard a noise like a spring snapping back together (bwang). My eyes opened and the TV was black. I looked around and the nightlight and alarm clock were still lit. Rats.
That TV was just over 5 years old and now it's a brick. Damnit Samsung. This is the second time I've had something similar happen to my bedroom TV back in 2011 - that one was about 3 years old and was covered by a warranty. That time it was a capacitor and it came on over time after groaning type noises.
I was able to make a decision pretty quickly yesterday. The new Roku TV is up and worked perfectly last night.
That's one... what other two things are going to give me trouble soon?
Thursday, January 15, 2026
I had another place come and draw up built ins for either side of the fireplace. They sent the quote - which is a bit pricey, but I just don't like it and I think it's because it's stark white -- and it almost has to be.
Since I have an open kitchen to living room I could also see going the same color as the kitchen cabinets, but that won't work with all of the white trim that is already in place - unless I half ass them and don't take them the whole way up the wall and leave the white trim at the ceiling in place. They also convinced me that my original design isn't the most ideal for reasons and I get their argument.
It wasn't meant to be right now anyhow, as it can't happen before the new carpets go in. At that point I wouldn't want them to pull the carpet back up to add the built ins, but I also think the action of putting something like that in on top of carpet is kind of gross and weird. Is it just me?
Save your money girl, you have other things to buy and need to rebuild the slush fund. I think I'm going to get a real glass chair mat for my computer room, which isn't cheap, but it will protect my new floors. I also need to get the right solution for under the dog crate to protect the new floors in there and keeping the crate from moving around.
Finally, I really should call someone about the hot water tank or watch enough you tube videos to try and figure it out the slow leak of water from the overflow valve myself.